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Rendezvous, Calif.–Pamper-Her-Friday, Opened/Read 8:41 a.m.:

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Say, Love,

There are three types of women in the world: The immovable, the movable, and those that move.

I’ve observed you; you’re a natural-born ‘mover.’

Unfortunately I’m not a follower. Never have been. I chart my own course. I set the tone of the chord music of my own life, whether success or failure. Trial and error is a familiar refrain in my ongoing story. It’s often a lonesome endeavor–not being a follower.

I’d accepted lonesomeness as a frequent visitor.

But then I learned along the way that there can exist something, someone known as a ‘smart follower.’ Ever heard of that?

A smart follower is a listener, a watcher of a woman’s actions. He goes well beyond licking his chops at her outer assets and reads the fine print of her inner sanctum.

I love to read.

Men, by nature, don’t like to follow women. We’re not inclined. And, truth be told, a woman doesn’t care for a man who follows (well, except directions, right?). It’s a fragile walk on a very thin line that a man must navigate: Listen to you, your suggestion(s), your opinion(s), and do what you want–to keep the relationship peace.

Yet, don’t be gullible, don’t be one of the herd. Don’t be a strengthless follower.

You want, you love a ‘leader.’ After all, there can’t be two chiefs to achieve harmony, a semblance of needed balance–someone’s got to be a tribesperson, no?

Am I implying that you are, that you be the tribesperson, the Tonto to my Lone Ranger, the Robin to my Batman, the Pippen to my Jordan?

Of course not, woman. But then, ‘chieftain’ is my natural position. Something’s got to give. At least sometimes. No?

You’re a by-nature, in-the-genes ‘mover.’ As am I.

But it’s Friday. I’ve done my homework on you, some serious study. I like what I’ve discovered.

I’m going to follow you. Smartly.

I’m in your hands, woman. Let’s see what you’re gonna do . . . with me.

I’m your smart follower. Today. Tonight. Why?

It’s Pamper-Her-Friday, Love.

xoxo

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Lead or follow, but above all . . . pamper the woman. -Rg2

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